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BSpan77  
#1 Posted : 07 March 2019 05:50:44(UTC)
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This Friday I am going out with another guy for the first time ever. I am a tad nervous about it. I am straight but always enjoyed spandex since I wore a pair back in the 80's when my old band played a gig. Since then I was hooked and loved how they felt, and looked. Now, Friday night I am going for a "Coffee and whatever". I don't know where this will lead really but have an inclination as to what he meant. Do I wear something spandex like I normally do under my jeans or just wear something basic and see how it goes? I have never been with a guy in my life and then I met this guy.
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spandexual on 07/03/2019(UTC)
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#2 Posted : 07 March 2019 13:21:39(UTC)
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Definitely wear some spandex gear!
That's the whole point of meetups and I'm sure he'll be expecting it(and wearing some himself).
Good luck, Have fun and stay safe! ( let us know how it goes)
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#3 Posted : 07 March 2019 16:55:25(UTC)
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I'd absolutely wear some spandex. It's all about managing expectation and being yourself. If you cannot be yourself you're kidding both of you. Do what you like and be yourself, that will prevent disapointments both ways.
I wish you an exciting night. Let us know the outcome... ;-)
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#4 Posted : 08 March 2019 03:27:39(UTC)
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the same sentiments as with the others,

wear some spandex underneath cause you never know you could click with the other person and help you realise why you like spandex in the first place!!!

good luck to you matey and as always let us know how you go.
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BSpan77 on 08/03/2019(UTC)
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#5 Posted : 08 March 2019 04:50:26(UTC)
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Thanks.

I will wear some underneath and hopefully all goes well and he's into it as well.
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#6 Posted : 09 March 2019 20:27:15(UTC)
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What type of hot spandex gear did you wear underneath?
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#7 Posted : 10 March 2019 03:34:31(UTC)
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I would say it's a total yes to wear some spandex....your meet-up is all about the fetish! You'll feel sexier and he will, too! Perhaps casually bring a small tote with some some of your favorite gear. Such fun to pose, play and try on each others gear.
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#8 Posted : 12 March 2019 00:39:43(UTC)
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Good luck, hope everything goes ok! Let us know the details after...
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#9 Posted : 12 March 2019 17:29:33(UTC)
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Good luck with your first time.

You didn't say you met because of spandex, so I suspect this is more about your first time with another guy and not so much about spandex.

Be yourself and wear the spandex, but lower the expectations and focus on making a new friend. If the vibe is right, it will proceed accordingly.
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Ilovethongs on 13/03/2019(UTC)
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#10 Posted : 14 March 2019 04:35:28(UTC)
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So, how did it go?
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#11 Posted : 14 March 2019 10:52:53(UTC)
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Enjoy and wear what makes you feel sexy and good! Hope it went well for you! The first time is so fun but nervy too! Enjoy!
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#12 Posted : 15 March 2019 04:24:45(UTC)
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Got stood up. :(
Better luck next time.
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#13 Posted : 15 March 2019 14:19:21(UTC)
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You will be ready and have some hot spandex underneath for next encounter!
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#14 Posted : 16 March 2019 02:23:47(UTC)
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Sorry you got stood up. That sucks.

Unfortunately, it's happened to everyone at some point.
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#15 Posted : 16 March 2019 13:18:58(UTC)
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Sorry you got stood up. That sucks.

Unfortunately, it's happened to everyone at some point.


Yup...clearly he chickened out. Good for you for going through with your committment!
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